You might help him by repainting the sack (him to begin to sort thru her things with him) and changing furniture around and encouraging. (Better if their in-laws contributed to this, it is area of the grieving procedure)
Shanhun, I’m able to know the way you are feeling concerning this relationship and just why you might be wondering whether or not this has a long-lasting future.
But I do not think you may be, after all, wasting some time using this guy, with him, you say you love him, and you can even imagine spending the rest of your life with him because you like being. So long as the partnership has those aspects that are positive and it is satisfying in today’s, simply enjoy being with him. None of us understands exactly just how a certain relationship will come out as time goes on, and also this one does not seem especially dangerous, or perhaps a bet that is bad.
It is good that this guy adored their spouse, and therefore their memories of her, along with his wedding, are good people. Not merely does that suggest that he is maybe perhaps not saddled by plenty of shame and remorse and regret and unresolved conflict regarding their spouse and wedding, in addition implies that his grieving process may be significantly simpler and long than it could be if that are not the actual situation. (mehr …)